I read something recently on a friends Facebook page which lead me down memory lane. I remembered that all too well, so, for the benefit of history, I am reposting what he had on his post today, but I have added more personal memories to it too.
I was born in Tidworth, Hampshire and during my first few years lived on an air force base. At the age of 5 my family emigrated to South Africa. I grew up (mainly) in Cape Town and I am proud of my humble beginnings...
I am one of 6 children born to my parents - 4 sons and 2 daughters.
It was at a time when everyone treated each other like Family, and, as a sign of respect, every mature female that came to your house was "Auntie or Tannie" - even if they were no relation.
We ran around barefoot (wearing shoes was kept for "going out" with parents only), and we went outside to play on the streets where we built dens and climbed trees, made swings in trees, and see-saws out of a builders plank slung over a fallen tree trunk, go-carts were made out of rough wood with unused baby pram wheels and they had a basic pull-rope-push-feet steering mechanism, and catapults were fashioned from suitably sturdy twigs with the projectile propelling elastic (always kept to hand for replacing the worn elastic in underwear) being requisitioned from Mum's sewing box. And for those with itchy fingers, finger knitting was done using a wooden spool.
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I am one of 6 children born to my parents - 4 sons and 2 daughters.
It was at a time when everyone treated each other like Family, and, as a sign of respect, every mature female that came to your house was "Auntie or Tannie" - even if they were no relation.
We ran around barefoot (wearing shoes was kept for "going out" with parents only), and we went outside to play on the streets where we built dens and climbed trees, made swings in trees, and see-saws out of a builders plank slung over a fallen tree trunk, go-carts were made out of rough wood with unused baby pram wheels and they had a basic pull-rope-push-feet steering mechanism, and catapults were fashioned from suitably sturdy twigs with the projectile propelling elastic (always kept to hand for replacing the worn elastic in underwear) being requisitioned from Mum's sewing box. And for those with itchy fingers, finger knitting was done using a wooden spool.
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| shoeboxstudio.com/2014/08/24/make-a-wire-knitting-spool/ Finger knitting This one uses wire, but we used scraps of wool |
We didn't eat fast food... We ate jam sarnies, home made food and chips cooked in a lard chip pan. Our plates were empty (including the vegetables) at the end of the meal, or we didn't get the occasional treat - pudding!
We got ice cream from within the depths of the enormous (to us) dry ice filled cooler box fixed on the front or back of the ice-cream boy's bicycle, and we had our milk (in glass bottles) delivered by the milk man. For special occasions, he also delivered orange juice in glass bottles. (Small bottles of milk and juice were handed out in junior school at 1st break too and were consumed with a sarnie - if we were lucky enough to have one.)
We played jacks, hopscotch, rounders and marbles, Hide and Seek, Wolfie- Wolfie and tok-tokkie (knocking on a door, and running away - preferably hiding before the door was opened and you were "caught out" being naughty).
After a good rainfall, the favourite afternoon entertainment in our neighbourhood was going further than where our Mum could see us, to somewhere we could find a large rainwater puddle. Apart from jumping around in the puddle, tossing stones into that puddle and watching the resultant splash caused much entertainment, merriment and competition. That particular form of entertainment was curtailed after one of my brother's decided to lob a large(r) rock into the pond (to make a bigger splash?), and my head was in the way. That lark cost me 8 stitches. After I came round, I discovered that the blood was everywhere and it seemed like the injury was more severe than it was (and my mother probably aged dramatically that afternoon). Mind you - have I been normal since then...? bwahaha
There was no bottled water. Everyone drank water from the tap or the garden hose, and, if we had a (glass) bottled cooldrink we would share the same bottle of pop with whoever was there... after giving it a wipe with our mucky sleeves or the palm of our hands.
Wicks King Size and Chappies bubble gum - they kept us entertained for hours. 1d got you 4 Chappies back in the day!!! I wonder how many "semi-antique" pieces of furniture still carry the hidden remnants of chewed bubble gum.
We had no kids tv channels and rode on our bikes for hours.
Any research information that was required involved getting yourself to a library, rifling through their reference card drawers, finding the book identifying number and then looking up the information in that particular volume of one of the many varied and vast sets of encyclopedias. Google - although extremely helpful, certainly does not lead a child on a knowledge "treasure hunt".
We either cycled or we walked - sometimes miles - to the bus stop or railway station in order to get to school - no lift clubs existed then, and 1, never mind 2 car families were few and far between..
Making your bed, (hand) washing - and drying - the dishes, feeding the pets and completing countless other chores - they were expected of you, you didn't argue, and you performed them to the best of your abilities.
There was no such thing as a mobile phone or any other electronic device. If I recall correctly, the only electric items in our house was the precious (valve) Grundig radio, the (non-steam) iron, a couple of heaters, the vacuum cleaner, a kettle and the stove. The transistor radio was yet to happen...
Our Gundig radio eventually got replaced by a hi-fi cabinet and the turntable played vinyl 7 singles (played at 45 rpm) or LP's (played at 33.3 rpm). No CD's, no iPods, no iPhones in those days.
Light globes had bakerlite fittings, and both the wall mounted and side light switches and telephones were made from bakerlite too. They all lasted for ages.
Lawnmowers were either a manual push version or a petrol driven forward rotating blade one - if you were one of the more fortunate families.
Wooden doll houses / doll prams and push chairs, scooters and bicycles were the most sought after and cherished birthday and Christmas gifts. An added bicycle bell was an bonus - and, again, often became a much anticipated future birthday or Christmas gift. A bit if a b*tch if your birthday fell during the early months in the year - you had to wait yonks until Christmas or your birthday came around again... But wait you did.
Otherwise a wooden or cardboard box and our imaginations sufficed.
Designer labels were unheard of - you were grateful for having clothing, and new clothing was reserved for birthdays or Christmas gifts. The rest of the time hand-me-downs were the norm. I remember once - I think I was turning 6 or 7 - being given a new pair of shortie pyjamas as a birthday gift. Being excited about what I was going to receive, I couldn't wait for my birthday so I went "investigating" Needless to say, I found my gift and had a preview. Although terribly pleased with the choice I was disappointed as now I had no surprise left to look forward to.
Evenings were spent as a family listening to our favourite "soapie" on the radio in the lounge - "No Place to Hide" - with Mark Saxon and Sergei Grimiko (sp?) as the main characters. Or, for a scarier evening "The Creaking Door". As we became teenagers, my elder brothers created a wall chart of the hits played on "Springbok Radio's Top 20" - with the Beatles being the favourite group to chart, and the Rolling Stones begrudgingly allowed on the chart as comparison. No spreadsheets - no computers...
Rainy days were spent playing board games (snakes & ladders / scrabble / etc) or reading or knitting (mainly dolls clothes lol)
The street lights were your curfew or until your mum shouted out the window. School was mandatory, but you'd could (apparently - although I never did) still bunk a couple of lessons every now and then.
We watched our mouths around our elders because we knew we'd get a "clap" with a belt or shoe, slipper, wooden spoon... Talking back was not an option! Nor even a muttered comment under your breath as you walked away after your rebuke.
My favourite after school lunch was white sugar sprinkled on buttered bread (margarine hadn't been invented yet), and, on special occasions, condensed milk on buttered bread. (Maybe I was more active after school than during - dunno, don't remember. There again, with all the outside playing that occured in the afternoons we probably needed the energy boost...)
When, and why, did childhood become so complicated?
Life was simple then - and our imaginations played the most important role in our lives. Children were allowed to be children then, not young adults.
Times certainly have changed haven't they...!?









































